How to get rid of chapped lips?

I've had chapped laps for a really long time and I've used Vaseline, Burts bees, carmex, petroleum jelly, blistex, Nivea, EOS, olive oil, aloe vera, almost everything I can get my hands on. I don't lick my lips and I try to drink lots of water. I read that too much chapstick is bad and your lips get used to chapstick and cant moisturize themselves. So I'm not gonna use chapstick for a few days, and see if my chapped lips go away. Is this okay? If I don't use chapstick for awhile will my chapped lips go away and everything? If not what's a good idea that I can use that permanently gets rid of it quick? Thanks plz help me