The Japanese Lolita Style?

I'm not a fan of Lolita fashion. It is an expensive extravagance which is often mixed-matched with Gothic undertones. I am also surprised at other people's ignorance for where the term came from. I have no idea how a fashion style can be named after a famous novel named "Lolita" by Vladamir Nabakov, whose protagonist Dolores Haze is a precocious 12-year old girl caught up in a ual relationship with the pedophile Humbert Humbert. So to me, girls that dress in Lolita fashion unknowingly seek attention from pedophiles. That scares me.